–adjective 1. likely to change, esp. due to caprice, irresolution, or instability; casually changeable: fickle weather.
Why do we pretend to be who we want to be? Come on, we all want everyone to love us...but why? Don't you think that means "fitting in with society?" Life shouldn't run you down and you shouldn't be fake. People change like the seasons...we all need to discover the question "why."
You learn from your mistakes, but you have to live them not be TOLD how to avoid them....