But if it is broke, it can be fixed! Don't let youself get in the way. Time doesn't heal all, but staying positive is key. There are always options and alternatives to the dark side of life. I hate to say or better yet hear the word "no," but dern, sometimes ya gotta face it and pick up the pieces. Yeah, if I find a shoe that is absolutely breath taking there's no doubt if it fits my arse is getting it in every color.